Shadowing...what is it, how do you do it and why?

Have you ever wondered what it is like to be a lawyer, an artist, a business person, or something else?  How do you find out if that is what you want to be when you grow up? What would it be like to live in their shoes for a day or even for a few hours?  Shadowing is your answer...and it is FREE!

Shadowing is one of the most important tools you can use to understand what a person does professionally.  It simply means you follow someone around as if you were their shadow as they go about their day.  This gives you the opportunity to observe what they do in a typical day, from phone calls to emails to meetings- and hopefully they have time to explain some of it to you.  The goal of shadowing is to provide you with an idea of whether or not you would like to go into the same profession.

If you want to shadow someone, ask them and be respectful of their time.  Most professionals that you ask will feel flattered and will say yes.  Keep in mind that not everyday is an exciting day and most days are spent in the office in front of a computer (not too much fun to shadow...huh?).  However, if you provide them with a range of dates/times that work for you (example, 2 weeks in August), they may be able to select a day that will be of most value and fun to both of you.

I'm always looking to increase the number of fantastic lawyers, so let me know if you want to shadow me.

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Do you dream in Spanish?

Being the daughter of Mexican immigrants, my first language is Spanish.  While I think this is very common, I am continually amazed that other people are surprised by this fact.   Growing up in a non-English speaking home is nothing new to me, and probably nothing new to you.  However, it is unusual for most of the lawyers that I work with and for most of my clients and business colleagues.  Once their surprise has dissipated, many times the next question they ask me is "What language do you dream in?"  The first few times I had not idea how to answer this question- now, I am ready with my response- it depends, if I am speaking with relatives a generation older than I, it is in Spanish, with everybody else it is in English.

Why do I bring this up today?  Today I sat with a young lady and we worked on her law school personal statement.  As she was recounting her pre-college experiences, something prompted me to ask if her parents spoke English-- her response, is the same as mine, their English is very limited and her first language is Spanish.  When I asked her why she had not mentioned that in her personal statement,  she looked perplexed as if to say "It is not big deal, that is not unique."  When I shared with her that many of colleagues would be surprised, she could not believe it.

As children of immigrant parents we overcome unique challenges to make a better life for us and our families in this Country- one of them is learning a new language.  In this college/graduate school application season, do not consider any of the challenges that you have overcome as not worthy of mention.  Overcoming challenges, shows resilience, self-motivation and strength of character- all qualities that any academic institution would be lucky to have.

So...what language do you dream in?

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Simply...F...U...!

What do you mean "FU?!?"  Yes, follow-up!

Following-up keeps you fresh on somebody else's mind.  We live in a very busy world, where we might not even remember the conversation we had a few hours ago.  If you want to be remembered you must take initiative.

To "follow-up" means to do something that continues what you have already started.  It is not so difficult, the hardest part is to start "the something," when you follow-up you already have the momentum going.  

For example, if you send an email to a potential employer re-stating your interest in a position you applied for, this is following-up.  The email is the "action" that "continues" your pursuit of the job which was "started" by the application you submitted.  A second example is the phone call you make to an Alum you met from a university you are interested in attending and is willing to help you with your application.   Your phone call is the "action" that "continues" your discussion that was "started" by your prior conversation.  

Your follow-up activity keeps you fresh on another person's mind and allows you to go after a potential opportunity to see where it leads.  So...don't be shy...who should you follow-up with this week?

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A Mixed Bag

Everyday is mixed bag- it has encouraging moments and discouraging moments.  Good news and bad news.  Easy times and challenging times.  One thing that will encourage us to move forward is not letting the bad moments cloud the good moments that happened during our day.  Do not let the bad moments win by focusing on them- this will deplete our momentum and discourage us from moving towards our target.  Know that every day is a mixed bag, the best we can do is learn from those challenging times and work very hard at finding the good moments during our day (small as they might be) and being grateful for them.  In this we will find strength and courage to continue down our journey.

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Mid-Summer and No Job?!?

I can't believe it is the middle of July- the summer is going by very quickly.  I know some of you students are becoming frustrated because you anticipated having a summer and job and it is mid-summer and still no job.  What to do?

The first thing to do is to answer the following question "Why do you want a summer job?"  There are 2 answers that I typically get to this question-- money and experience.  While it may not seem like it right now, experience may be more important than money.  To get the experience, you may consider going to "work" for a company/organization that you are interested in as an "unpaid intern" if they cannot hire you.  This means that you have the same access/training as their employees, the only difference is that you are not getting paid.

There are many benefits to working as an unpaid intern.  Being an unpaid intern helps you take part in an area that you may be passionate about, it may teach you some skills that you can transfer to another job, it may help build-up your resume, it may give you the opportunity to meet people that can serve as positive references in the future, or it may even open the door to a company/organization that was outside your reach!  Remember... the amount of experience you get and how it benefits you in the future, has nothing to do with how much you get paid today.  There is no shame in working for free, I have not met a single professional that didn't work for free at some point in their life.....so join the club, you will be glad you did!

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Help....Really??

Yes, Really!  It is ok to ask for help.  Many times we become overwhelmed with our own thoughts/situations and we try to figure things out on our own.  We fail to share our concerns with others that may be able to help---for fear that we will waste their time or that our problems/issues are no big deal.

First off, whatever you are worried about IS a big deal-- and that is ok.  Don't feel bad asking for help.  Chances are that whatever situation you are in, someone else has been in that same situation before...and you can learn from their experience.  Take it from me, it is much easier to just ask someone who knows instead of trying to figure things out on your own.

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Chicano Latino Youth Leadership Project- Sacramento Leadership Conference

Calling all 10th and 11th graders!  The Chicano Latino Youth Leadership Project is seeking applicants for their week-long annual conference in Sacramento.   Selected students will participate in powerful workshops and seminars to enhance leadership skills, academic preparedness, self-esteem, cultural awareness and provide an understanding of state and local government.  A visit to the State Capitol is scheduled for students to learn first-hand about the legislative process through mock hearings and personal interaction with legislators. 


Applications are due April 2, 2012 and the conference will take place from July 21-28, 2012. 120 students will be selected without cost to them or to their families.  Students will be housed on the California State University Sacramento campus.  


For more information and to download the application, visit www.clylp.org, call 1-800-MY-CLYLP or email conference@clylp.org.


Good Luck!


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